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"Who Am I" Episode #0205
Directed by John Fortenberry
Written by David Regal
After Ray and Debra spend an evening apart, Ray admits he no longer enjoys his juvenile pursuits with his friends. Thrilled that Ray is finally growing up, Debra invites him to attend a book reading where Ray winds up falling asleep. Concerned that he doesn't know where he belongs, a reluctant Ray agrees to join Frank for a steam bath with his buddies at the lodge. To Raymond's surprise and Debra's dismay, Ray winds up thoroughly enjoying himself and contemplates joining.